92. what’s missing is empathy

We all exist at the center of our own universe, so it’s hard not to view everything from the lens of your own perspective because that’s all you’ve ever known. In an effort to create the world we want, we must not lose sight of how the actions from our singular perspective can affect others. We are effectively blind to the consequences of our actions, sometimes because we choose not to see, and other times because we can’t. In either situation, if the world we wish to create includes another person, we need to have a little more empathy for how others may see our actions. Most of the time, we all go into situations thinking only about what we want rather than what is important to that other person. It isn’t necessarily wrong, but if that person is someone who you want to place your focus on, then it is important to include how your actions may affect them. Changing your perspective in this way is a powerful way to deepen your relationships.